
Becky List
Psychotherapeutic Counsellor
(BSc Hons Integrative Counselling)
"I am not what happened to me, I am what I choose to become"
Carl Jung
Based Norfolk, covering Kings Lynn & Norwich
WELCOME
Counselling Near King’s Lynn & West Norfolk
Based in a private village setting near King’s Lynn, I offer integrative counselling for adults experiencing anxiety, trauma, ADHD and related emotional difficulties. I work with clients across West Norfolk, including those travelling from Norwich, and also provide secure online counselling across the UK.
Whether you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck in patterns that no longer serve you, or carrying experiences that feel difficult to process alone, therapy can offer a steady and supportive space to begin making sense of things. My approach is practical, relational and grounded — focused on helping you stabilise in the present while exploring the deeper patterns underneath.
I offer face-to-face sessions in a quiet countryside setting, as well as online and telephone appointments for greater flexibility.
What is Integrative Counselling?
Counselling
Integrative counselling also refers to the bringing together of the affective, cognitive, behavioural, and physiological systems within a person, with an awareness of the social and transpersonal aspects of the systems surrounding the person. It is a combined approach to therapy that brings together different elements of specific therapies. Integrative therapists take the view that there is no single approach that can treat each client in all situations.
Where are you based?
I provide counselling near King’s Lynn, West Norfolk, working with clients throughout the local area as well as those travelling from Norwich. I also offer online counselling across the UK for greater flexibility. I am based in a private village setting approximately 30 minutes from King’s Lynn, offering a quiet and discreet space for counselling.
My Qualifications
I trained with Matrix School of Counselling and Psychotherapy, although I am integrative which means I work with a variety of methods to assist clients I lean towards a humanistic/Psychodynamic approach when working with clients. I like to explore relationships, childhood experiences and working in the moment to create an understanding of a clients current life position. I am also trained specifically in eating disorders and trauma.
I believe, to be open and honest with a client, aids working through problems and difficulties a person may be experiencing in life. Typically the first few sessions would be looking at what goals you would like to set, getting to know each other and exploring a way to work together.
It is important to me to ensure that you feel comfortable and you are able to connect with myself, the room and the encompassing environment around us. It is important to work through any questions you may have or anything within the room that feels difficult for you or any challenges you are facing.
The ethical framework that I hold in mind throughout my work as a counsellor are; to do good, to not cause harm, to treat clients equally and fairly, honour people's right to make their own decisions and for professionals to honour the trust placed in them by the client and organisation.
I also work within the framework of the UKCP's ethical principles.
To work in an anti-oppressive way for me is to value relationships and approach my clients with respect and kindness and challenge stereotypical views. It is important to recognise differences between myself and the client and bring them into the relationship to enable any pre-conceived judgements about the counselling process to be worked through.
I pay close attention to my own personal and professional development and ensure that I commit to renewing my knowledge and skills.
My Experience
I can appreciate choosing a counsellor can be quite a difficult task so its important that you understand a little behind who you would like to work with. I have included a personal statement in the hope that this will help with your choice of therapist.
I am 36 years of age i have lived local to this area most of my life and i have a 8 year old son. I have a large interest in the study of the mind. I am a very visual person so i enjoy visiting new places and seeing the world from different perspectives. I enjoy fitness, learning new things and i have a keen interest in music and nature.
During my career prior to counselling I have worked in in predominantly a social care background with managerial roles within this field. I have worked as a therapeutic youth worker with 16-19 year olds in care, special needs teens, drug and alcohol addiction and palliative end of life care.
I think the biggest thing that motivated me to becoming a counsellor was based on experiencing my own trauma as a young adult.
Within counselling i have worked with students, generalised counselling settings and my own private practice. Currently, i have a private practice situated in Beeston.
I have experience in the following areas:
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Trauma - click here for more information : Childhood Abuse, Domestic Violence, Traumatic Relationships, Grief and Loss, PTSD and Complex PTSD, Rape and Sexual Assault.
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Eating Disorders - Click here for more information: Anorexia and Restrictive food patterns, Bulimia, Bing Eating Disorder, Trauma related food control.
- Attachment & Relationship Difficulties - click here for more information: Relationship difficulties, Traumatic relationships Family issues, Fear of abandonment, Repeated unhealthy patterns
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Emotional Regulation & Coping Patterns - Click here for more information: Self-harm, Impulsive behaviour, Anger management Addiction & drug/alcohol abuse, Self-care management, OCD & perfectionism.
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Mood, Identity & Self-Worth- Click here for more information: Depression, Anxiety, Self-esteem, Suicide ideation, Personality disorders.
Insurance and Fees
I have full indemnity insurance and I am a full member of UKCP.
Fees are charged per session each session is 50 minutes and is charged at £65 per session.

The Room
I’m based near King’s Lynn, serving West Norfolk and Norwich areas, with good access from the A47, in a small village in Beeston with a cosy room available for counselling sessions, based in the countryside it is peaceful and far enough away from the hustle and bustle of life but with good access just off the A47.
I am located between Swaffham and Dereham.
I work Face to Face, online and telephone




